Supernatural Story Finders

Ok so for my general request I'm looking for any Sam/Jess fics (I've read a few lately that I just really loved and I want more :-) ) but it doesn't matter if it's pre-her death in pilot, Jess!lives, Sam remembering/dreaming about/telling stories about Jess, complete AU, or whatever.  What I DONT want are Sam/Dean/Jess, or any other threesome for that matter, unless maybe if it's actually more Sam/Jess and Dean/Jess (two seperate couples not a threesome, and no wincest here please) and if that were the case I think I'd still rather Sam either not know about the other relationship or not be happy about it (though that would likely make Dean &/or Jess a jerk or at least making very hurtful choices, but I guess that could lead to a good angsty story lol). Anyhoo, I'd just really like some Sam/Jess, and it seems to be a lot harder to find than it should be! (I've already gone through what's under the Jess!lives and Sam/Jess tags here) 

For my specific request, and I'm not 100% that I'm not mixing up more than one fic, but Sam was getting ready to go on a date and Dean was giving him big brother advice for if Sam "did it" for the first time that night. I can't remember word for word but it was along the lines of "make sure she has a good time/enjoys it, not every girl likes the same things, no means no. I hope that's not necessary for me to remind you of that but no one ever thinks it's gonna be their brother, you know?" I think he may also tell him to be safe, like "if she says he doesnt need a condom because 'I'm on birth control' then smile and say 'I am too!'"  I can't remember for sure after that if I'm mixing up different fics because I'm remembering one where Dean finds him afterwards upset on the front steps of the house they were living in and Sam is mad at Dean because he really liked the girl but found out that her mom had slept with John and maybe the girl or her friend with Dean? And Sam maybe calls them(dean and john) some equivilent of manwhores or something. BUT the thing is I'm also remembering Sam having gone to a party and is really nervous and cant believe this girl wants to take him up to her room but then she goes downstairs to get drinks and I think tells her friends something mean about Sam and Dean is also at the party and she makes out with him (he hadn't heard what she'd said about Sam and didn't know she was the girl Sam liked) and then Sam comes back downstairs and sees them and runs off.  When he and Dean are back home they get into a fight and at first Dean lets Sam hit him because he figures he deserves it but then they get to fighting more and Sam goes through the window and is stabbed badly by glass and taken to the hospital.
So I honestly can't remember which ending went with the fic with "the talk" but if you know of either of these fics I'd be ever so grateful. :-)

Thanks bunches!

(mods: again, I hope I did the right tags, I wasn't sure on the meaning of the fighting!boys one or if I needed to do the het one since I did Sam/Jess?,or if I should do the episode au? Basically I stink at tagging! :-P)