Supernatural Story Finders

Hey guys,
So there are a couple of things I've been looking for recently, and in the end I just had to admit defeat and post here! You're help would be much appreciated!

Gen fic search:
1) Any J2 fics where one was raised in a well-off home environment? Well a *more* well-off home environment than the other, perhaps the other is a little embarrassed by their less than awesome home when coming home to visit or something. I'm pretty much looking for non-AU here guys, but y'know anything goes! Also I'm not talking about their current bank balance, more looking for childhood issues of never being able to go on school trips where as the other had like a laptop and a tv and an ipod and a car and all the coolest brands when they were in high school. This request comes from reading a fic recently where Jensen alluded to coming from a pretty privileged home so... make of that what you will. Rambly request is rambly.

2) Any wincest, or gen Sam/Dean (or J2, I'll never say no) that involve one of the boys being bi or gay and having to 'come out' to the other? 

Specific fic search:
1) I cannot find this and I can't understand why because I'm pretty sure its everywhere, anyway! J2 are roommates, an odd couple sort, Jared is gay and hasn't come out to Jensen whom he has a mega crush on. Jared works in an animal shelter with Daneel, he tries to set Daneel up with Jensen, J&D end up just being friends because Daneel thought J2 were together. Then they confess their undying love and live happily ever after. Sharing cigarettes on the balcony.

2) This one is either gen or wincest, I'm not sure. Either Sam or Dean is trapped in their motel room, and every morning when they wake up they are met with a version of their brother from a different dimension. One is a girl, one is the brother whos brother is dead, one is the brother who is happily engaged and on a cross country trip with their brother. I'm pretty sure its Dean stuck in the room who's met with different versions of Sam. Like 90% sure. This is a very confusing explanation. I hope you understand what I'm talking about!

Thanks guys!